This is one Dynamic Duo that can quickly turn toxic and cause unbelieveable amounts of pain if not in balance. Together there is no force that can defeat them; their strength designed by the Maker Himself. So why are so many marriages in trouble? Pride, stubbornness, stupidity? ‘You have to earn respect’, ‘Why should I do that? She doesn’t even respect me.‘ Either of those sound familiar? Well, they do to me. Ray & I have had storms that nobody danced in – they almost killed our relationship. We didn’t meet the Dynamic Duo until many, many years into our marriage. How did it happen? …when I heard the Lord telling me to trust him, not Ray. The most incredible thing was birthed! I quit telling Ray what he was doing (he knew anyway) and told the Lord – who wanted to just talk about me! Tenderly, lovingly, sweet-so sweet. God handled both sides of our marriage in a way I couldn’t because I only thought I knew what I needed:) Jesus is The Redeemer!!!! I love my husband and he is the perfect man for me! Today is our 27th anniversary. God is good. Especially when it hurts……..